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Tag Archives: on call
Making the Spirit Bright
Fa la la la la…la la..la…la la! Oh! Hi! Merry Christmas! And Happy New Year! Never mind me…I’m just feeling pretty good about Christmas this year…that’s right. I’ve got the Christmas spirit – in spades. Want to know my secrets? … Continue reading
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Tagged alone, attitude, children, choices, Christmas, funeral, funeral director, funeral director's wife, funeral home, holiday guilt, holiday stress, holidays, on call, strategy
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What To Do When “the way it’s always been done” Sucks.
I am all for tradition. I love holiday meals, summer vacations, special music, church liturgy…things that you can count on. I am also a big fan of processes and procedures. I like standards. I enjoy measuring up and having the … Continue reading
Weekending With A Vengeance: Making The Most Of A Weekend Off
It’s Monday morning. My skin is sun-kissed, my house is a mess and I’m pretty sore throughout 80% of my body. But I’m perfectly happy about all of it. My funeral director was off this weekend. We weekended with a … Continue reading
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Tagged funeral director, life, married to a funeral director, on call, relax, weekend
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GUEST POST: The Multiple Personalities of the Funeral Director
Thank you to guest poster – Paige Kaina – for sharing this awesome post and observation. I think we all can relate. – Katy Last weekend our family went camping with one of my husband’s old friends from Mortuary School … Continue reading
The Super Secret Silent Language of Funeral Directors
Funeral Directors have a Super Secret Silent Language that is all theirs. It mostly consists of nods, looks and sighs. Those of us who share life with them know it too. The “Let’s Go” Nod In church yesterday, a text … Continue reading
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Tagged funeral directors, gotta go, nod, on call, silent language
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How Far Out Are You?
Life With A Funeral Director is groovy…man. Like, it’s so far out…man. Like I’m just chill all the time…man…. Right? Nope. On my commute home tonight, my funeral director called me – “How far out are you?” I stifled my … Continue reading
Posted in On-Call, Time, Uncategorized, Work
Tagged bye, commute, far out, funeral director, love you, married to a funeral director, on call, wife of a funeral director, working
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I Woke Up To This.
It’s April 14. Easter is less than a week away. And I woke up to this today. 3 inches of pristine, white heart-attack snow covering our earth. The kids are on 2 hour delay. I’m thinking about how I’m going … Continue reading
There is no such thing as “be right back.”
My family is personally financing the next Mercedes purchase of some Saudi prince’s nephew’s brother. We are of the evil minions who don’t own a hybrid or an electric car. We routinely split our children between two vehicles on our … Continue reading
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Tagged be right back, coping, funeral director, lessons, life lessons, married, on call, two cars, wife
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The Weekend That Wasn’t
“It’s Monday, right?” my funeral director asked this morning. “Uh-huh,” I smiled. “Back to it…” “I never left it.” So goes the weekend that wasn’t. Many of us will wake up next to a funeral director today after a weekend … Continue reading